As we move into the fourth year of our five-year talent transformation strategy, we are introducing a high-potential leadership program, leadership coaching, and a multi-directional mentorship network including peer-to-peer, reverse, and traditional mentoring relationships. We are also implementing standard formats for conducting a 1:1 meeting, recognition tools, and culture charters to further strengthen connections between leaders and their teams.
Practical Tips for Building Meaningful Connection
So, what can you do – right now – to start building more meaningful connections with your team? Let’s look at a few simple practices to help you get started on the path.
1. Prioritize your team more than anything else. There are few things as demotivating to a worker than not feeling valued by their boss. As leaders, we need to show that our team members are our top priority. Reading a text or email in the middle of a conversation or often cancelling one-on-ones sends a message that your team is not your top priority. Our advice, eliminate anything that might be a distraction when you are meeting with your direct reports (i.e., email, phone, smart watch, etc.), and do your best to protect these meetings from cancellation or reschedule.
2. Do what you say you’re going to do. If you commit to act on or investigate an issue for a team member, make sure to deliver on that commitment. You may not always have a positive result to share but following through on your commitments – even if the result isn’t ideal – goes a long way in solidifying the groundwork for trust. This is especially true when dealing with accountability or performance issues within a team.
3. Set clear expectations and standards. A common mistake we see leaders make is not clearly expressing what their expectations are or how they define success within their team. We often fall into a mental trap, thinking that everyone works and thinks the same way we do. Whether you’re onboarding a new team member or planning for the upcoming year, invest the time with each member of your team to ensure that you are both aligned on what the expected results are and what success looks like. Be sure to check in often throughout the year as well. These quick check-ins are a terrific way to course correct or adjust if the plan changes.
4. Take time to recognize and celebrate. As the leader, it is your responsibility to guide the team in establishing rituals for celebrating team accomplishments – remember, it’s about them, not us. Additionally, you should spend time learning how each member of the team prefers to be recognized, individually. Some team members would prefer monetary rewards while others find physical awards or PTO days to be of greater significance. If you provide everyone with the same generic “Great job!” recognition, it will quickly be perceived as ingenuine and may do more harm than good.
These tips are not meant to be comprehensive, there are hundreds of actions you can take outside of this brief list. However, these (4) actions have an outsized impact when compared with other similar actions on driving trust and meaningful connection between a leader and their direct reports. If you’re already prioritizing these behaviors, excellent, you’re on the path! If not, take a moment to think about how you can start incorporating these tips into your day-to-day interactions with your team.
At Davidson, we are committed to continually innovating our leadership practices to meet the demands of the contemporary workforce. Our focus on trust, empathy, authenticity, transparency, flexibility, and individualization ensures that we continue to deliver exceptional service and foster a culture where every team member can thrive.